This past year has been life changing and eye opening. We bought a house, after so much struggle with job loss and losing our home in Florida, we were able to move into a home of our own again. I was accepted into and graduated from a prestigious Business Bootcamp! That was mind blowing what I learned and how much I grew during that time. I earned a Success Club trip to Disney World. My husband and I went to Vegas for Coach Summit -- It was an experience that will forever be one of my top 10 favorites in my life. I met new friends, I met celebrities. It was amazing! My marriage has gotten stronger. My husband & I have really built an incredible relationship and it's all built on a foundation of trust, hard work, health and fitness. We are slowly learning how to become debt free. The financial freedom once we pay off our last bit of debt will be indescribable! I've done a lot of personal growth: I'm overcoming anxiety and learning how not to care what others think of me. I'm learning how to be a successful business woman. I'm learning how to be the best leader for my team and help others have a more fulfilling life of their own.
It hasn't been all roses & balloons though. For 2 months we weren't sure how we'd buy groceries or keep the house heated. Work was slow. Money dried up and things got real tight. And it's still very hard financially for us right now. We had some ups & downs with our children and even moving into our new home had some trial & error moments. Our life is far from perfect! But we strive every day for progress and keep moving forward one step at a time. We've learned that nothing God puts in our path is meant to break us, it's meant to strengthen us and keep us pointed towards our goals. Many people give up in the face of adversity and say it's just too hard, it's impossible. That is the wrong attitude! We may get pushed around and tripped up by life, but we damn sure will fight to stand back up and keep pushing forward. That is the right attitude!
What many people don't realize is that we can change our attitudes about life. It takes some work, but it can be done. The more we accept other people and their faults and quirks, the less judgmental we become. The more we decide to share the goodness that's within us, the less selfish we become, and the less likely we are to hang on to material things. The more we learn about other's emotional or physical problems, the more understanding and compassionate we become. YOUR attitude is one of your gifts to the world, all day, every day. What kind of gift do you give? And is it a gift that remains strong, steady & true no matter what happens to you?
Showing posts with label anxiety. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anxiety. Show all posts
12.20.2012
11.13.2011
S.A.D and Anxiety
Unbelievable as it sounds, the Coach has been out of commission the last week or so. I've lost a battle with depression and anxiety. I fought a good fight, but the battle got the best of me.
It all boils down to this: Some times no matter how strong a person is or how hard they fight, the black hole will suck them in. I am a prime example.
Working out and eating right doesn't always help. Personal and family issues have been difficult the last few weeks and they've wore me down. I simply couldn't fight them off any longer. No amount of "faking it" or positive thinking worked. I just couldn't keep fighting, I was tired and beat.
Does that mean I give up? NO! I will never give up. It only means that the battle may have been lost, but the war is far from over. I won't let it keep me down long. I will work through the muck and mire of depression and anxiety. I just need time to sort out my feelings and figure out how to stand back up.
That saying "fall down seven times, get back up eight" applies well in this case. I'm down but I am not out!
I may not seem like myself for a few days. Quiet and withdrawn. I may not participate in my usual groups and business affairs. Too confused and lost to think about that at the moment. I just need some time to adjust and reset my path. My journey is far from over...I'm taking a forced pit stop.
It all boils down to this: Some times no matter how strong a person is or how hard they fight, the black hole will suck them in. I am a prime example.
Working out and eating right doesn't always help. Personal and family issues have been difficult the last few weeks and they've wore me down. I simply couldn't fight them off any longer. No amount of "faking it" or positive thinking worked. I just couldn't keep fighting, I was tired and beat.
Does that mean I give up? NO! I will never give up. It only means that the battle may have been lost, but the war is far from over. I won't let it keep me down long. I will work through the muck and mire of depression and anxiety. I just need time to sort out my feelings and figure out how to stand back up.
That saying "fall down seven times, get back up eight" applies well in this case. I'm down but I am not out!
I may not seem like myself for a few days. Quiet and withdrawn. I may not participate in my usual groups and business affairs. Too confused and lost to think about that at the moment. I just need some time to adjust and reset my path. My journey is far from over...I'm taking a forced pit stop.
10.28.2011
Controlling the Physical Symptoms of Anxiety
Anxiety is bothersome enough by itself, but blushing, sweating, or stammering can make it worse. Learn how to control the physical symptoms of anxiety.
Does anxiety give you sweaty palms, make your face red, or leave you stammering? If so, you’re not alone.I have suffered with anxiety for over 7 years now. I have yet to figure out what triggered it or why it has to plague me at all, but I do know that I'm finding ways to cope and heal and move on. I thought I'd share this article with everyone because it has great tips on how to deal with anxiety. I hope it helps someone who's wondering how they will deal with this, sometimes, debilitating condition.
People with an anxiety disorder often experience physical symptoms such as sweating, shortness of breath, trembling, or even heart palpitations. Explains Jonathan Rich, DO, an internist at Mercy Medical Center in Baltimore, “It’s actually very common. There’s [almost] always some kind of a physical manifestation even before we diagnose anxiety.”
Fortunately, it is possible to ease some of the physical side effects that can go along with an anxiety disorder.
Anxiety Problems: Tips to Help You Stay Calm
Try these strategies to help manage your anxiety physical symptoms:
Know yourself. If you’re able to recognize and acknowledge the physical symptoms that tend to develop when you feel anxious, it will be easier to control them. “If people start having palpitations, they worry that something is wrong with their heart,” notes Rich. “Just tell yourself, ‘Okay, this is what my body does when I’m having an anxiety attack.’” You’ll likely begin to notice your symptoms ease.
Avoid anxiety triggers. The best way to deal with the physical effects of an anxiety disorder is to avoid becoming anxious in the first place. This may be easier said than done, but one good way to accomplish this is by avoiding situations that you know cause anxiety, Rich says. People who become anxious in crowds, for example, may want to steer clear of them.
Breathe. If an anxiety-producing situation can’t be avoided and you start to feel yourself blushing, sweating heavily, or becoming physically uncomfortable in other ways, you may be able to blunt your symptoms with deep breathing (also known as diaphragmatic breathing) techniques. One method of deep breathing is to breathe in through the nose for four counts, hold it for seven counts, and then breathe out to a count of eight. Breathing in this manner can help relax the muscles and provide a welcome distraction from an anxiety trigger.
Consider medication. People who find the physical side effects of their anxiety disorder to be particularly bothersome may want to talk to their doctor about taking medication to reduce their anxiety levels. “Usually, if anxiety is the underlying problem for physical symptoms, the physical symptoms will go away if you treat the anxiety,” says Rich. Some of the most common medications for long-term treatment of anxiety are antidepressants known as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors, or SSRIs, which work by restoring the balance of chemicals in the brain. Sertraline and paroxetine are examples of SSRIs commonly used to treat anxiety disorders.
Anxiety attacks can also be treated with quick-acting medications like diazepam (Valium) or another benzodiazepine. “They are very good for short-term treatment of severe panic attacks,” says Rich. “They basically calm you down.”
Also, anxiety and its physical side effects may be managed with beta blockers, a class of medications usually used to treat heart conditions and high blood pressure. Beta blockers like propanolol slow the heart rate and relax blood vessels, which can ease physical symptoms in many patients. When used for anxiety, they are only taken right before an anxiety-inducing event. For example, a performer with anxiety would take a beta blocker before he goes on stage, Rich explains.
Exercise. Here’s yet another good reason to hit the gym: Getting regular exercise can go a long way toward relieving anxiety. Physical activity is thought to help the body practice responding to stress. That way, when the real thing does occur, the body is better prepared to handle the difficult situation than it would be otherwise. “For general overall mental health, any exercise is certainly beneficial,” Rich says. At least two and a half hours of moderate physical activity per week are recommended for healthy adults, but beneficial effects can be seen with even an hour of exercise per week.
If you experience anxiety on a regular basis, remember these tips to help keep physical symptoms at bay. Don’t hesitate to talk to your doctor, though, if your anxiety problems persist.
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